Episode 491 The Impact of Alcoholism on Family Dynamics with guest Belle Rape

In this episode, I interview Belle Rape, who shares her journey from a city girl to living on a working farm. Belle discusses her family background, the impact of alcoholism on her parents' relationship, and the importance of support systems for families dealing with addiction.

In our conversation, Belle Rape shares her transformative journey of faith, relationships, and personal growth.

Belle reflects on her upbringing, the social norms surrounding drinking, and her personal faith journey, emphasizing the need for understanding and compassion in navigating these complex issues.

She discusses her college experience at a private Christian institution, where she deepened her relationship with Christ while navigating the typical college life. Belle reflects on her marriage to Jonathan, the challenges they faced with family expectations, and the importance of forgiveness.

Belle also touches on the need for strong leadership in men and the couple's leap of faith in transitioning careers to pursue their passions. Belle's entrepreneurial journey with her business, Blueprint by Bell, emphasizes building a brand on a solid foundation of faith and purpose.

 

takeaways

  • Belle Rape's family has a history of farming, focusing on organic practices.

  • Living on a farm is a 24/7 commitment with constant challenges.

  • Belle's upbringing in the suburbs shaped her perspective on life.

  • Alcoholism had a profound impact on Belle's family dynamics.

  • Support systems for families of alcoholics are crucial yet often lacking.

  • Belle's relationship with her parents is complicated by their struggles with alcohol.

  • The normalization of drinking in social settings can be harmful.

  • Belle emphasizes the importance of personal choice in breaking the cycle of addiction.

  • Finding faith and personal identity can be transformative.

  • Belle's story highlights the need for open conversations about addiction and family support. Belle found a deeper relationship with her faith in college.

  • Attending a private Christian college was a pivotal choice for her.

  • She balanced her faith with the typical college experience.

  • Jonathan has been a significant influence on her faith journey.

  • Family dynamics played a crucial role in their marriage decisions.

  • Forgiveness is essential for moving forward in life.

  • Strong leadership in men is necessary for societal change.

  • Taking a leap of faith can lead to personal fulfillment.

  • Belle's business focuses on helping others build their brands.

  • Every answer to life's questions can be found in the Bible.

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To reach Belle:

Website: https://www.blueprintbybelle.com/ 

Email: belle@blueprintbybelle.com

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Thanks again to Belle for coming on Busy Living Sober

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Love,

Elizabeth aka Bizzy