Inclusivity and Openness

Looking back on my younger years, I always had a deep desire to include everyone, a trait that has carried into my adult life. However, there was a time when I acted contrary to this value—when I was drinking. During those years, I wasn't always the kindest person. I surrounded myself with those I perceived as better or more affluent, driven by a need to climb the social ladder. It was a difficult time, and the truth is, I didn't like myself very much.

It wasn’t until recently that I realized how misguided my thinking was, especially within my own family. I wanted to stand out, which led me to isolate myself, feeling as if I were wearing a scarlet letter. Over time, I came to understand that I had turned myself into a victim. Have you ever felt like that?

Being a victim is an isolating place. No one wants to hear a "woe is me" story, and the irony is that I put myself in that position. Yes, people said hurtful things, but how I chose to react was entirely on me. No one else can control how we feel—only we can.

It's fascinating to realize that our mindset shapes how we perceive and react to situations. Today, I’m genuinely happy—not just putting on a façade. I like who I am, inside and out. I no longer feel the need to impress anyone, and as a result, I’m more open and eager to connect with others.

When we are open and content, God brings so many gifts into our lives. But when we’re closed off, everything seems dark and sad. I believe that those who have a relationship with God tend to live happier, more content lives.

As we approach Labor Day weekend, I encourage you to include others—whether it’s sharing a meal, taking a walk, or simply having a cup of tea or coffee. Let’s be open and inclusive, and take a moment to appreciate the laborers who helped make this country great.

Wishing you a wonderful Labor Day filled with love, connection, and joy. Remember, you are never alone.

XOXO,
Elizabeth aka Bizzy